Feeling buried by debt in 2025 feels different from how it did even a few years ago. With prices rising and interest rates staying high, breaking free from debt can feel impossible. But I promise — it’s still doable. Here are the four simple steps that helped my family become debt-free, and how they can help you today.
Debt is not forever, but it can certainly feel like forever.
If there is one thing that I have learned from our debt-free journey, it is that dumping debt ain’t easy and without serious hustle and a solid plan in place, you will fall flat on your face.
I have done that – falling flat on my face, many times on this journey. It is not fun, but it is a heck-of-a-lot easier to pick yourself back up again if you have a plan. It is also made easier by following these four steps:
Step 1: STOP Accumulating New Debt
Do not wreck your debt-free journey by going backwards. STOP accumulating new debt immediately! That means you are no longer using your credit cards to make purchases and are not taking out any new loans for anything. Period.
If you continue to accumulate new debt, all you are doing is setting yourself up for failure. Once you start this journey, there is no looking back. But of course, this is easier said than done, but if you can remain committed to staying clear of accumulating new debt, you’ll be debt-free faster than you ever thought possible.
Step 2: LET GO of the Negative
This may seem silly, but the more negative you are about everything in life, the less likely you are to succeed in your debt-free journey (or anything in life, for that matter). You are going to face hard times on this journey, and you are going to have to make difficult sacrifices. Avoid allowing negative thoughts and negative talk to hold you back from reaching the end of your journey.
Getting rid of my beloved Tahoe was a difficult sacrifice for me, but it allowed us to dump $18,000 of debt in one day. At first, it was easy to be negative about the paid-for car I replaced the Tahoe with because it was below my high car standards. In fact, I hated my Sequoia. I wanted to get in a wreck just to get rid of it. I hated it so much. Now, I would not trade my Sequoia for that Tahoe even if it were free. Why? I found contentment and peace with having a vehicle that runs great, still has a few bells and whistles (leather interior and a sunroof), and gets my family from point A to point B.
Let go of the negative and find contentment where you are right now. It will make the debt-free journey easier and increase the likelihood of your success.
Step 3: MANAGE your Money
In order to make the debt-free journey easier, you need to know where your money is going every month and how much extra you can throw at the debt monster. Make it a point to sit down with your spouse (if applicable) and make a budget. If your spouse works a lot or is avoiding the whole budgeting process, you can make it easier by making out the budget and then asking your spouse to help you fix it (ladies, I have learned that men like to “fix” things, so make sure you ask that he helps you to fix the budget).
Currently, my husband and I use a Google Docs spreadsheet that I update every week with our transactions and then I notify my husband when it is ready for him to review. It keeps us on top of our money and keeps communication open.
Step 4: Make a PLAN
“You were born to win, but to be a winner, you must plan to win, prepare to win, and expect to win.” – Zig Ziglar
Mr. Ziglar had it right. To win, you must plan to win first. If you want to succeed on your debt-free journey, you must make a plan. Creating a debt payoff plan does not have to be a challenge; keep it simple, and you will succeed. Start with your lowest balanced debt and work your way towards your largest one.
When I first embarked on the debt-free journey, I went at it without a real plan and just ended up burned out. Yes, I was still paying off debt, but without a plan and way to measure my success, I was not able to feel accomplishments but just ended up feeling like it was all for nothing. Create a plan and stick to it.
Anyone who has ever embarked on the journey towards debt freedom knows that it is not easy. My goal with my next project is to make it a tad bit easier on you. I have created an Excel workbook based on the one my family uses to help you track your debt payoff plan, budget, financial plan, assets, and more!
Do you have a plan in place for becoming debt-free?
Want more advice on becoming debt-free and living your best life financially? Check if my book, Getting Good with Money, is available at your local library.
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These are such excellent points. Yes, you have to stay potisitve I think a lot of that negativity comes from fear. And fear is the biggest liar ever.
So true Lydia!
All excellent points. I don’t have kids and no spouse, but goodness do I have some student loans and medical debt that needs to go. I think I speak for a lot of folks when I say that avoiding it makes it worse. Much worse. Just today I finally sat down with a financial planner and wish I would have done so sooner.
Oh yes – avoidance was my flavor of choice when I was in my early adult life deep in debt. You rock for sitting down with a CFP! That’s awesome and such a big step!
I think you hit the nail on the head with your first point, and the part that I think most people find most difficult. Great post! Stopping by from #SITSblogging
I LOVE that you included “let go of the negative” aka contentment. I feel very similar to you, I wouldn’t trade our personal growth and contentment that we have developed through our debt free journey for anything.
I am so glad I stumbled on your site! I find it very encouraging and positive.
Karen